This is a great beginner prostate toy, it's relatively small and very simple to use, and I would definitely recommend for anyone interested in getting into prostate stimulation!
The entire exterior is made of a black silicone, with one main bulbous body piece that is inserted and then two tabs that protrude at the base to stimulate the erogenous zones near the anus. The inserted piece has three sections that stimulate different regions internally, focusing on the prostate with a somewhat more aggressive angle than some of their other offerings. The two tabs have some flexibility but they are not adjustable like the new Psy model. The front tab is meant to apply some external prostate pressure, while the rear tab is called the "Kundalini" tab and is meant to provide some extra stimulation. The pair of tabs helps keeps the toy stabilized and in place nicely. Overall it's a very simple toy, and I think that's ideal.
Experience
As mentioned above, this is a pretty simple toy - just insert it and then you can either move it slightly manually to apply stimulation to just the right spot, or leave it pressed up against your prostate and let your muscles do the work. I will note you definitely need a good amount of lubrication, though the smooth silicone makes it very comfortable to insert. Specifically you will want to use a water or oil based lubricant, as a silicone based one could damage the toy. The body is about an inch wide at the largest section so you need to take your time slowly rubbing around the anus and gently inserting back and forth until your body sort of pulls it in, and the bottom inserted section is only quite narrow so it's comfortable to wear after the wider parts are inside you. The position your body is in will also make a difference as to how easy it is to insert - personally I used Aneros' recommend positioning of laying on your side with your bottom leg outstretched and top leg pulled towards your chest.
Once inserted, don't worry about the toy falling out, the tabs keeps it stabilized and the different sized sections inside ensure it won't move too far out of you. Now you can start slightly clenching or flexing the PC muscles makes the toy move around a little on it's own both back and forth and side to side for quite a bit of stimulation. The PC muscles are specifically the group of muscles you used to stop peeing, essentially you're doing kegels. This can take some time to get used to, and it's not going to be a mind blowing sensation at first. They key is really relaxing and letting it build, not trying to push the toy into your prostate for maximum pressure. It's a very unique sensation for anyone new to prostate stimulation and it definitely took me some time with a few different toys to learn that less is more. Once you get used to the motion by alternative flexing and relaxing the muscles you can try holding the flex for a while or using a rhythmic pattern to help build the stimulation. After some time you'll start to feel a tingling which for me feels similar to the building up of the beginning of a regular orgasm. While I have yet to reach the elusive hands free prostate orgasm, this is still a very nice sensation, and it adds a whole new dimension when paired with regular penis stimulation whether you are wearing it during sex or using another toy.
(Picture taken from the Aneros website)
Price
Personally, I think the toy is a little overpriced at retail considering how small it is and how few "extra" features it has. But with frequent sales at various toy retailers I think if you get it for under $50 it's pretty good value for money. Aneros uses the highest quality FDA approved materials and even includes an Amazon Transparency barcode on the (very nice) packaging to ensure you're getting a real product. I think all of that peace of mind is worth it for a toy you're inserting into yourself, especially considering that are is a sensitive and permeable membrane.
Comparisons to other options
I personally found this to be a much easier option to start with compared to the famed Njoy Pure Wand (or Le Wand's similar options). The silicone body was personally more comfortable than metal because it doesn't require warming first (and isn't as jarring to insert if not pre-warmed), and it's softer. The toy is MUCH lighter which means you can use it for longer, and once inserted it's essentially hands free, while the Njoy/Le wand options require staying in one position or holding in place with your hands. You do have less customizability in how you stimulate the prostate though, the angle is set and once inserted there isn't a lot of play beyond using your muscles internally.
There also no vibrations like some other prostate toys, including Aneros' other offerings, and while that does offer another layer of stimulation, I find that vibrations can quickly numb the area and actually make it harder to find the sensations you're looking for. I'd recommend this more manual stimulation for a beginner, but having the option could be nice.
This is also a cheaper toy than many of the options listed above, coming in at near half the price of the metal wands mentioned and $30 cheaper than the vibrating version of the same toy, and I think that's worth noting.
Materials and care
Because the toy is made of silicone it is pretty easy to clean, just washing with an antibacterial soap is enough, though it might retain some smells. That's just a downside of using silicone, which is prone to retaining smells in any use case, but I think the pros outweigh the cons on that material choice. Another option that could help neutralize smells is soaking it in a diluted vinegar solution or (even more diluted) bleach solution and then thorough rinse with water after. Aneros advises against boiling to sterilize as this could deform the toy, which is unfortunate because heat would likely help with removing odors. Even if it retains smells after washing with antibacterial soap, it is safe to use, and considering where it'll be going on the next use I wouldn't worry too much.
This is an amazing stroker with incredibly soft TPE, and a great visual design modeled after Tru Kait. It offers a unique texture within that offers great stimulation especially focused on the head, but no parts are left out. Definitely one of Fleshlight's top options going forward.
Lovense doesn't make a lot of penis toys, but this one is a winner with a specific purpose. It's a solid vibrator that's great for edging, but don't expect it to get you over the edge without some extra help.
This is a water bottle shaped stroker complete with an extendable spout which means you can truly hide it in plain sight. It's unfortunately a little too firm and tight, and has minimal texture within which makes it hard to recommend outside of specific cases.
This is a rumbly and flexible prostate massager and vibrator that works incredibly well! It's not for beginners due to it's size, but if you work your way up, it can unlock a whole new kind of pleasure.
The Fun Factory Booty Femme is a versatile and beginner-friendly butt plug designed for use during penetrative play. Its unique shape ensures comfort and security, with a longer end that stays nestled between the cheeks, allowing for seamless play without interference. It's made from body-safe silicone, making it easy to clean and compatible with water-based lube.
For those who enjoy anal stimulation, this plug is definitely an option to consider. The Hello Cake Buzzy Butt vibrating butt plug is made of body-safe silicone, and has a long T-shaped base, so it's quite easy to insert and pull out, the base also ensures there's no fear of the toy being sucked in too far.
Hello Cake states that the toy can be used for both beginners and those with more experience, but I feel like it's a bit large for a beginner. Just like the company states, it's "not too small, not too big". It's also a bit long, reviewers mention that because of its length, it can stimulate the prostate quite easily. As a transgender man, I still enjoy the toy a lot!
The toy is waterproof, so you can wear it practically anywhere. The toy does fit a bit snugly, hence why I don't see it as beginner friendly, but the T-shaped base definitely helps with this a lot. This toy can be ordered on the Hello Cake website, Amazon, or even in physical stores. To reach a full charge, the toy must charge for 120 minutes. When fully charged, it can be used for up to an hour on low vibrating speed, or around 45 minutes on higher speeds.
If you’ve been curious about anal play but felt overwhelmed by the options, let me introduce you to the CalExotics X-10 Beads. These beads are designed to ease you into the experience with their gradual sizing and simple, effective design. The clever design allows you to start small (with some itty-bitty beads) and progress at your own pace (to the larger, more ball-like beads). The spacing between the beads offers plenty of room for movement without any slips, and their flexibility ensures they adapt naturally to your body. Talk about comfort! They're a low-risk, easy choice for anyone new to anal toys or looking for a gentler, more relaxed experience. One standout feature is the pull-out ring, which adds an extra layer of safety and control. Whether you’re using the beads solo or with a partner, the loop ensures a secure grip for smooth retrieval, so you can focus entirely on the sensations without any worries. It’s a small but crucial detail that makes the X-10 Beads especially beginner-friendly.
More experienced users might find the smaller beads too subtle, but the larger ones deliver a satisfying “pop” sensation that makes the journey worthwhile. Their approachable size also makes them great for warm-ups or adding variety to partnered play. The PVC material, while body-safe and phthalate-free, is porous, so proper cleaning is essential. Wash with mild soap and warm water, or use a toy cleaner, to keep them hygienic. While I’d prefer silicone for its non-porous nature, the trade-off is understandable given the price.
While they lack the intensity of larger or vibrating options, the X-10 Beads are a great pick for gentle exploration or mixing things up. Whether you’re dipping your toes into anal play or just looking for something low-key, these beads offer comfort and pleasure without breaking the bank.
The Lovense Hush 2 Large takes everything great about app-controlled plugs and dials it up to eleven. The large version is not for the faint of heart, but once you get it in the first time things will never be the same, Experienced users will find this to be one of the most versatile and powerful plugs available. The standout app control via Vibemate AI sync and the lovense remote app creates whole new ways to connect and play with your partner or strangers. The rumbly vibrations make it perfect for both solo adventures and long-distance play. Yes, it's pricey, but the quality and features justify every penny.
The Passion Pal Challenger delivers a great balance of comfort and functionality. Its four-plus inches of insertable length hit all the right spots, while the rotating beads offer a unique twist that adds to the experience. The vibrating base provides unexpected and enjoyable external stimulation, and the stretchy cock rings fit comfortably without feeling too tight. Even after hours of wear, there’s no discomfort, and the plug stays securely in place, making it great for extended use.
While I would have preferred more control over the rotating beads, the app is easy to use, and the vibrations are strong and precise. It’s also impressively quiet, making it ideal for discreet play. Overall, the Challenger is versatile, reliable, and delivers satisfying internal and external stimulation.
This is a rumbly and flexible prostate massager and vibrator that works incredibly well! It's not for beginners due to it's size, but if you work your way up, it can unlock a whole new kind of pleasure.
Lovense Hush 2 in my opinion is the best high tech vibrating butt plug. This butt plug is for anyone who's graduated the basic anal training kits and wants to splurge on a vibrating butt plug, trust me you wont need a new one for the next few years.
Great for self pleasure sessions, long distance play, discrete public play or having your anus locked in during intercourse. Compatible with VibeMate AI sync feature giving you another dimension while enjoying erotica or any other form of audio-visual content.
The Passion Pal Homie turned out to be a pleasant surprise. Its compact design, smooth silicone, and snug fit made it easy to wear for extended periods without any discomfort. The flared base added an extra layer of security, ensuring that it stayed firmly in place even during more active moments.
However, the Homie really shines when paired with its app. The built-in vibrations are good, but the app brings a whole new level of control and customization, making it a much more dynamic experience, whether solo or with a partner. And with how quiet it is, it’s perfect for discreet use, even in public settings.
While the battery life could be a bit longer, the quick charging time helps offset that issue. Overall, the Homie is a solid option for anyone looking for a versatile, app-controlled plug that’s both comfortable and discreet.